Everybody makes a mystery out of dating, an ordinary everyday activity that is performed by millions of people on this earth. Every day. Every hour. Every minute. WHY is it that hard for some people to go on dates then? Is it because they are ugly? Sometimes yes, most of the times no.
Here are 3 rules of thumb that can change your dating life upside down.
The first Rule of dating is, “Don’t be too shy to approach”
Most people who don’t go on dates fail with the first step. They either lack self confidence or they build up a dark deep castle of thoughts what might go wrong in case they approach that certain person. First of all, dating is casual, everybody should do it- it’s nothing bad, if it would be bad you probably wouldn’t be here on earth. No one cares about what you do, besides yourself. People are approached everyday, some get through, some are rejected, it’s not that it matters. It’s all about yourself and that you feel comfortable approaching other people. In case you are really bad, start out small, ask for the time or something on occasion. Find a good pickup line and learn to approach. It’s not bad if you fail, you can always learn.
The second Rule of thumb is, “Be well groomed.”
Easy said, easy done- as long as you are not allergic to water, after-shave and eau de toilette you should be knowing what you do. And while you are at it, take a friend who you think has style to go shopping with you. It might help to find you clothes that are more attractive and make you look better.
The third Rule of dating is, “It’s not bad if you fail.”
Learn to live an interesting life and be happy. Get some cool hobbies and experience new things. Dating usually is about listening and telling good stories, and learning how to get closer and break the ice, but this is not the issue here. The more interesting your life is, the more stories you will have to tell. And in case you are into bits and bytes you have the hard time to find someone else who is into that as well, most people don’t think it’s the most interesting thing on the planet.